Family of God

Gospel

Matthew 12:46-50

Gospel Acclamation

Blessed are those who hear the word of God and observe it.

46 While Jesus was speaking to the crowds, his mother and his brothers appeared outside, wishing to speak with him. 47 Someone told him, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, asking to speak with you.” 48 But he said in reply to the one who told him, “Who is my mother? Who are my brothers?” 49 And stretching out his hand toward his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers. 50 For whoever does the will of my heavenly Father is my brother, and sister, and mother.” 

Introduction

This passage presents a moment when Jesus redefines the meaning of family. While He is teaching, His biological mother and brothers arrive, wanting to speak with Him. Instead of stopping His ministry, Jesus uses the moment to teach a profound truth: true kinship in the Kingdom of God is based on obedience to the will of the Father. He challenges natural assumptions about relationships and invites believers to embrace a deeper spiritual identity.

Jesus' statement is inclusive, welcoming all who choose to follow God's will, regardless of their background or status. It shows that anyone can be part of God's family if they live according to His will. He highlights that those who follow God's will are part of His spiritual family. This means that our connection to God and each other is based on our faith and obedience, not just our blood relations.

Historical Background

In first century Jewish culture, family loyalty was one of the strongest social bonds. A person’s identity, honor, and security were tied to their household. Public gatherings were often informal, with crowds surrounding a rabbi as he taught.

Jesus’ mother and brothers approaching Him would have been seen as a legitimate claim on His attention. Yet Jesus responds in a way that elevates spiritual priorities above cultural expectations.

It is also important to note that Jesus’ brothers—James, Joseph, Simon, and Judas did not fully understand His mission during His early ministry. Their arrival may have been out of concern, confusion, or an attempt to intervene.

Theological Context

Redefinition of Family. Jesus declares: “Whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.” He establishes a new spiritual family formed not by blood but by obedience.

Priority of God’s Will. Jesus shows that God’s mission takes precedence over social expectations, even legitimate family ties. This does not reject His earthly family but clarifies that the Kingdom of God creates a higher allegiance.

Discipleship as Relationship. Doing the Father’s will is not merely moral behavior—it is the mark of belonging to Jesus. Obedience becomes relational, not transactional.

Inclusivity of the Kingdom. Jesus opens the door wide: anyone—Jew or Gentile, male or female, rich or poor—can become part of His family through faith and obedience.

Learning Lessons

Our true identity is not defined by earthly labels but by our relationship with God. When we follow His will, we become part of Jesus’ spiritual household. Believers are not just members of an organization; they are brothers and sisters in Christ. This calls for deeper love, unity, and commitment to one another. No one is excluded from becoming part of God’s family. The invitation is universal: Do the Father’s will, and you belong.

Even good and important things—family, culture, expectations—must not overshadow God’s calling. Jesus models a life where the Father’s mission is the highest priority. True faith expresses itself through action, obedience, and alignment with God’s purposes.

Reflection for the Day

Importance of doing God's will. It's a call to live according to God's teachings and commandments, which brings us closer to Him and makes us part of His family. Being part of Jesus' family requires a commitment to live by God's principles. It's not just about believing but also about acting on that belief through our daily lives.

Reflecting on this verse can inspire us to deepen our relationship with God and strive to live in a way that aligns with His will. 

Poem

In the heart of heaven's light, 

Where love and faith unite, 

A family bound by spirit's call, 

Not by blood, but by the will of all.

For those who heed the Father's voice, 

In His grace, they find their choice, 

To walk the path of truth and grace, 

And in His love, they find their place.

Brothers, sisters, mothers too, 

In God's embrace, they are made new, 

A bond that time cannot sever, 

United in His will forever.

So let us strive to do His will, 

With hearts sincere and spirits still, 

For in His eyes, we are one, 

A family of faith, under the Son.

Prayer

Dear Lord Jesus,

We come before You with humble hearts, seeking to do the will of our Father in heaven. We thank You for the gift of being part of Your spiritual family, bound not by blood, but by faith and obedience to Your word.

Help us to live each day in accordance with Your will, to love and serve others as You have taught us. May we always strive to follow Your example, showing compassion, kindness, and forgiveness to all.

Grant us the strength and courage to face the challenges of life, knowing that we are never alone, for You are with us always. Let our actions reflect Your love and grace, so that we may be true brothers and sisters in Your holy family.

We ask this in Your precious name, Lord Jesus. Amen.

Pericope:

IV: Opposition from Israel

THE TRUE FAMILY OF JESUS

Matthew 12:46-50

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Published

November 21, 2024, 10:10 AM

Childlike Virtue of Determination

 

Gospel

Matthew 18:1-5, 10 

1 The disciples approached Jesus and said, “Who is the greatest in the Kingdom of heaven?” 2 He called a child over, placed it in their midst, 3 and said, “Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the Kingdom of heaven. 4 Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the Kingdom of heaven. 5 And whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me. 10 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that their angels in heaven always look upon the face of my heavenly Father.” 

Historical Background

This passage occurs during Jesus’ ministry in Galilee, likely in Capernaum. It follows a series of teachings and miracles, including the Transfiguration (Matthew 17), which may have stirred questions among the disciples about status and greatness. 

In ancient Jewish society, children were not romanticized as innocent or pure. They were seen as low in status, dependent, and without legal rights. Jesus’ elevation of a child as a model for greatness was countercultural and radical. 

The disciples ask, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?”—a question rooted in social hierarchy and ambition. This reflects common rabbinic debates of the time about rank and reward in the coming messianic age. 

Theological Context

Jesus says, “Unless you turn and become like children…” (v.3). The Greek word for “turn” (στραφῆτε) implies a radical reorientation—a conversion. Entry into the kingdom requires abandoning pride and embracing humility. 

Jesus redefines greatness not by power or prestige but by humility. The child becomes a living parable: dependent, trusting, and unpretentious. This echoes themes in the Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3) and Jesus’ own self-description as “gentle and lowly in heart” (Matthew 11:29). 

Verse 5 emphasizes that welcoming a child “in my name” is akin to welcoming Christ himself. This affirms the imago Dei in the least and calls the church to radical hospitality. 

Verse 10 suggests divine protection and advocacy for children and the “little ones.” It implies that the vulnerable have direct representation before God, reinforcing their sacred worth. The verse may draw from Jewish angelology, where guardian angels intercede for individuals. It also affirms that the marginalized are not forgotten—they are honored in heaven.

In a broader literary structure, Matthew 18 is often seen as a “Discourse on the Church” or a manual for discipleship. It begins and ends with children (vv.1–5 and 19:13–15), framing the entire section as a meditation on humility, care for the vulnerable, and communal responsibility. 

Learning Lessons

The virtue of determination, especially when viewed through a childlike lens, is a beautiful and inspiring quality. It embodies the spirit of never giving up, no matter the challenges faced. Jesus encourages us to persevere and remain steadfast in our efforts. Despite facing immense challenges, He remained determined to fulfill His mission. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up (Gal 6:9).

Reflection for the Day

Reflecting on this passage today, we are reminded to approach life with humility and simplicity, recognizing our dependence on God's love and grace. Jesus invites us to embrace a childlike spirit—free from pride, open to learning, and compassionate toward others, especially the most vulnerable. Let us ask ourselves: How can we honor and protect the dignity of those society overlooks, and how can we nurture a humble heart that reflects the kingdom values Jesus describes?

Poem

In the heart of a child, pure and bright,

Lies a virtue, a guiding light.

Determination, steadfast and true,

In every challenge, it sees them through.

With eyes wide open, full of dreams,

They chase the stars, or so it seems.

No mountain too high, no river too wide,

With faith and hope, they stride.

Their spirit unbroken, their will so strong,

In the face of trials, they sing a song.

A melody of courage, a hymn of grace,

In every step, they find their place.

Through the storms and the rain, they press on,

With a heart of gold, from dusk till dawn.

For in their soul, a fire burns bright,

A beacon of love, a source of light.

So let us learn from the young and bold,

Their stories of bravery, forever told.

With childlike faith, let’s face each day,

With determination, come what may.

Prayer

Dear Lord Jesus,

We come before You with hearts full of gratitude and awe, for the gift of determination that You have placed within us all. Help us to embrace this virtue with the purity and strength of a child, to face each day with unwavering faith and a spirit undefiled. Grant us the courage to pursue our dreams with steadfast resolve, to overcome every obstacle, knowing that in You, all problems dissolve. May we walk in Your light, guided by Your love and grace, with determination that reflects Your enduring embrace. Teach us to trust in Your plan, even when the path is unclear, to hold onto hope and banish every fear. Fill our hearts with the fire of Your Spirit, burning bright, so we may shine as beacons of Your love and light.

Lord, grant us the strength to persevere through challenges and the courage to keep going when things get tough. Help us to trust in Your plan and to remain steadfast in our efforts, knowing that You are with us every step of the way. Let our determination be rooted in humility and compassion, to serve others with joy and passion. May we always seek Your will in all we do and find our strength and purpose in You. In Your holy name, we pray,

Amen.

Pericope:

V: Jesus, the Kingdom, and the Church

THE GREATEST IN THE KINGDOM / THE PARABLE OF THE LOST SHEEP

Matthew 18:1-5 / 10-14

Gospel Acclamation 

Bless the Lord, all you angels, you ministers, who do his will.

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Published:

October 02, 2025, 6:45 AM

WHERE THERE IS LOVE

"You are anxious and troubled 

about many things."

Luke 10:42

Anxieties and troubles come if you do or work on something that is not born out of love. Life becomes complicated if you lose focus on love.

Work because of your love to all those who depend on you. Serve the Lord because you love Him. This is all that the Lord requires, always put love in your heart in doing all things and you shall always enjoy the peace and abundance that the Lord brings not only to you but to your entire family as well.

Choose the good portion that can never be taken away from you. . .

THE STORY OF LOVE

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat". "Is the man of the house home?", they asked. "No", she replied. "He's out." "Then we cannot come in", they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. "Go tell them I am home and invite them in!" The woman went out and invited the men in. "We do not go into a House together," they replied. "Why is that?" she asked. One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How nice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!" His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?" Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love! Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice," said the husband to his wife. "Go out and invite Love to be our guest".

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest". Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?" The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!!!"


PRAYER

Lord Jesus, mould my heart into yours so that love will be manifested in all the things that I do.

Published:

October 08, 2024, 6:34 AM

July 29, 2010, 7:46 AM

Who is your Family?

 

Gospel

 Luke 8:19-21

19 The mother of Jesus and his brothers came to him but were unable to join him because of the crowd. 20 He was told, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside and they wish to see you.” 21 He said to them in reply, “My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and act on it.”

Historical Background

Jesus is teaching near the Sea of Galilee, surrounded by crowds eager to hear His words. His mother and brothers arrive but cannot reach Him due to the crowd.

In Jewish society, family ties were sacred. A son was expected to honor and prioritize his mother and siblings. Jesus’ response would have been startling.

This scene appears in Matthew 12:46–50 and Mark 3:31–35, suggesting its theological weight across the Synoptic Gospels. His brothers (James, Joseph, Simon, Judas) and sisters are mentioned elsewhere (Mark 6:3). At this point, they may not yet fully understand His mission.

Theological Context

Jesus declares, “My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and do it.” This elevates spiritual obedience above biological ties. He inaugurates a new family—the Church—where faith and obedience bind believers more deeply than bloodlines.

Like Abraham leaving his family (Genesis 12:1) or the Levites prioritizing God over kin (Deuteronomy 33:8–9), Jesus calls for radical allegiance to God. True kinship is rooted in hearing and doing God’s Word.

Learning Lessons

True discipleship is marked by doing God’s will, not proximity or heritage. Even those closest to Jesus by blood must respond in faith to be part of His spiritual family. Anyone who hears and obeys God’s Word is welcomed into Christ’s family.

Crowds may block access, but the Word of God is always near to those who listen and act. Jesus invites us to rethink loyalty, identity, and relationships through the lens of the Kingdom.

“The Crowd and the Call”

They stood outside, His kin by birth,

Bound by blood, by home, by earth.

But Jesus, teaching truth profound,

Spoke of a bond not outward-bound.

“My mother, brothers,” He declared,

“Are those whose hearts have truly dared

To hear the Word and walk its way—

Not just in talk, but in obey.”

No walls of flesh, no name, no face,

Can earn a seat or claim a place.

But hearts that yield and hands that serve

Find grace beyond what they deserve.

So let me stand not near, but true—

A child of God in all I do.

Not by the crowd, nor name, nor fame,

But by the echo of His name.

Lord Jesus, 

You who welcomed the humble and redefined the meaning of family, teach me to hear Your Word with reverence and respond with obedience. Let me not rely on status, tradition, or proximity, but draw near to You through faith and surrender.

Make me a true brother, sister, child— not by birth, but by belief. Help me to live Your teachings, to love Your people, and to walk in the light of Your truth. May my life echo Your voice, and may Your Spirit bind me to Your heart. 

Amen.

Pericope:

IV: The Ministry in Galilee

JESUS AND HIS FAMILY

Luke 8:19-21

Gospel Acclamation

Blessed are those who hear the word of God and observe it.

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The Child in Our Midst

 

Gospel

Matthew 18:1-5, 10, 12-14

1 The disciples approached Jesus and said, “Who is the greatest in the Kingdom of heaven?” 2 He called a child over, placed it in their midst, 3 and said, “Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the Kingdom of heaven. 4 Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the Kingdom of heaven. 5 And whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me. 10 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that their angels in heaven always look upon the face of my heavenly Father. 12 What is your opinion? If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them goes astray, will he not leave the ninety-nine in the hills and go in search of the stray? 13 And if he finds it, amen, I say to you, he rejoices more over it than over the ninety-nine that did not stray. 14 In just the same way, it is not the will of your heavenly Father that one of these little ones be lost.”

Historical Background

Matthew 18 is part of Jesus’ teachings in Galilee, likely in Capernaum, where He addresses His disciples directly. The question of “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” reflects the disciples’ misunderstanding of greatness, shaped by societal hierarchies and honor culture in first-century Judaism. Jesus responds by placing a child in their midst—a radical gesture in a world where children had no status or power.

Theological Context

This passage reveals the upside-down nature of the Kingdom of God. Greatness is redefined through humility and childlike trust. Angels watch over the “little ones,” affirming their divine worth. The parable of the lost sheep emphasizes God’s relentless pursuit of the marginalized and the wandering.

Jesus teaches that humility, care for the vulnerable, and restoration are central to His mission and the character of His followers.

Learning Lessons

True greatness lies in humility, not status. Children symbolize dependence, purity, and openness—qualities essential for discipleship. Every soul matters to God; no one is expendable. Spiritual leadership must reflect the Shepherd’s heart—seeking the lost and protecting the weak.

The Child in Our Midst

He placed a child in the circle wide,  

No crown, no robe, no pomp, no pride.  

“Be like this,” the Savior said,  

“Not the mighty, but the meek are led.”  

The angels guard the smallest soul,  

Their worth beyond what minds can hold.  

And when one sheep has gone astray,  

The Shepherd walks the rugged way.  

So teach us, Lord, to stoop and see  

The face of heaven in humility.  

To welcome hearts both bruised and small,  

For in Your love, there’s room for all.

Lord Jesus,

You placed a child before Your disciples to teach us the way of Your Kingdom. Help us to embrace humility, to welcome the vulnerable, and to seek the lost. 

Forgive us when we chase greatness by the world’s standards. Renew our hearts to reflect Your mercy, Your tenderness, and Your pursuit of every soul. Let us never despise the little ones, for in them, You dwell. May our lives echo Your love—bold in compassion, gentle in spirit, and faithful in grace. 

Amen.

Pericope:

THE GREATEST IN THE KINGDOM / THE PARABLE OF THE LOST SHEEP

Matthew 18:1-5 / 10-14

Gospel Acclamation

Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart.

Reflection Source:

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Promise with an Oath

In Matthew 14:7, Herod the tetrarch gave a promise with an oath to the daughter of Hero'dias "to give whatever she might ask". As we all very well know, she asked for the head of John the Baptist to be given to her on a platter.

Such horrific request born out of anger to a man who has exposed the truth came into play because of a promise with an oath that has to be fulfilled.

The learning lessons of this story is about lust and anger that could lead to the destruction of life but on the other side, it also pictures the corrupt use of power and authority by a king or a ruler whose promise with an oath is absolute regardless of consequences.

As we all know, Jesus is the King of all Kings and such words by Herod seem to echo what the Lord said in Matthew 7:7, "Ask and it will be given to you".

Obviously, it would be absurd for us to ask the Lord for the head of those who have angered us or have caused much pain to us but ironically, in the depths of our innermost thoughts, we wanted Him to do so. Out of vengeance, we want God to punish our enemies!

If the Lord knows that what we are asking for will not be good for us, will he still give it out of a promise with an oath?


Lord Jesus, I believed in the words you said that whatever I ask in your name, it will be given. Such promise I claim today in the light of the learning lessons I received from you.

While it is true that those who have caused me great pains have triggered my anger, I still stand by the peace and the love that you have brought into my heart. Please forgive me for any outburst of emotions that have led me to sin as I also ask that you forgive those who had sought me harm. Bring us all back to the true essence of your love so that we may all live in harmony and peace.

I also humbly ask that you give all of my heart's desires so that as you have said, "my joy will be complete and full in every way".

I give you back all the glory and praises, now and forever. Amen.

PUBLISHED:

August 03, 2024, 7:39 AM

August 05, 2023, 10:01 AM

July 31, 2010, 11:12 A.M.

A Child of God

He professes to have 

knowledge of God 

and styles himself 

a child of the LORD. 

(Wisdom 2 : 13)

He became to us a reproof of our thoughts; the very sight of him is a burden to us, because his manner of life is unlike that of others, and his ways are strange. (Wis 2:14-15)

Today is the anniversary date of this blog I created. I really did not know that the same exact words is biblical as revealed by the Lord. 

I believe dear Lord that having knowledge of you is not just acquired through studying and learning the scriptures but being blessed to have a personal relationship with you. Who am I Lord that you are always mindful of?

Moments of grace such as this is truly amazing for not all are blessed to experience that God is alive and dwells among men. He has confirmed that such an undertaking is not the product of my thoughts but His own work for a purpose that only the Lord knows.

As a child of God, my line of thinking and my ways no longer conforms to the secular world. Most people now see me as someone who is totally different as before because I have been transformed by the Lord to be in His likeness. 

I may not notice everything that the Lord does through me, but I can sense that He is working in me. I may still be experiencing hardships in life, and this is so because I am still focusing on temporal matters.

" See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the Children of God. Yet so we are." -- 1 John 3:1