WHO ARE MY MOTHER AND MY BROTHERS?

“Here are my mother and my brothers.For whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother.”
Mark 3:34-35

Family ties play a major role in Philippine culture. Coming from Europe where we are more individualistic and don’t care as much about relatives as Filipinos do, I sometimes feel a bit envious. But this close relationship among relatives also has its disadvantages and can become a burden. On the other hand, there is the assurance of help when in need. There are joyful family gatherings and celebrations, which are missed in my country.

The Son of God was born into a human family. John the Baptist was one of His relatives. Mark tells us that Jesus’ relatives did not understand Him. At one point, they came to get Him and bring Him back home because “they thought he was mad.” Why did they not accept Him in His role as teacher? Maybe they felt embarrassed by His new teachings; maybe they sensed that the authorities would intervene and arrest Him as His cousin John was arrested and even beheaded. That would embarass the whole family. Even though Jesus was an Asian, growing up in a culture where family ties were as strong as in the Philippine society, He began to found a new family, a family that was not based on blood relation. “Whoever does the will of God, is my brother, sisters and mother,” He said. Here Jesus emphasizes the superiority of spiritual relationships over close family ties. The extended family of Jesus is based on listening to the Word of God, discerning His will, and then doing what was understood as His will.

The best example is His mother Mary. Mary fulfilled the conditions Jesus had laid down for a true family relationship. She listened attentively to the word of God when the angel related it to her; she said “Yes” to the plans of God; and she acted on it given the opportunity. She is the perfect disciple. Mary teaches us how to be a member of the Lord’s family, how to be a close relative of Jesus.

By: Fr. Rudy Horst

Reflection Question:

Do I have difficulties in accepting the will of God for me? How do I react? Am I able to accept what I discern to be the will of God and then to do it?

Lord, You called me into the intimacy of Your family. Too often have I stood “outside” because I had difficulties in discerning and doing the will of God. May the example and prayer of Mary help me to become a better member of Your worldwide family.

St. Sabinian, martyr, pray for us.